By Mozes ZarateOriginal Source: datebook.sfchronicle.comStephanie Danler knows about the long-term damage of substance abuse in the family, how the trauma can manifest itself decades later, and how recovery is never out of the cards.In “Stray,” to be released Tuesday, May 19, the author of the New York Times bestseller “Sweetbitters” remembers what it was like to grow up around her parents in Southern California. Her father, a recovering alcoholic addicted to opiates and crystal meth, left home when she was...click here to continue reading